"Oh you don't go to trainings?" he smiled, not patronizing, just softer! "I get it, sorry I get a little carried away sometimes! You have no idea how nice a change that is from the 'I'm the date AND manager let me give you stats until your ears bleed' types! I just got so used to it...sorry!"

Yeeeaaaah. "So you're built more like a dancer, how'd you meet the rising star here?"